Cliff; it';s hard to be here with such young people who are looking for showmances and what they want to do and im here already sharing what ive done with my life. there are people that are lost on this show. i wont go into detail.it's not my place to do so but i feel emotionally for people in here that havent found their way out in the real world. Im a richer man with what ive done with my life. it doesnt have to do with money. Jess and I have found things that make us richer. and im not dragging others down and their families.. it's not a dig at y'all or them or their families. it's just he ages they are there are a ,lot fo uncertainties in their lives and fear that they haven't found what they want yet.